With Regard to "The Incident"
I debated with myself for a long time on whether or not to write this post. That debate went something like this:
Fan TB: Don't waste the space writing about it! Frank apologized. Merriewether said it's no big deal. Even the media, shockingly, isn't scandalizing the whole thing. Let it go!
Objective Observer TB: No, you have to write about it. It's news about your team. The readers want to know what your take is, and the fans of other teams want to trash-talk you if you soft-sell it.
Shockingly, my more level-headed side won out, and I decided to set forth my thoughts regarding "The Incident." As you probably know, we're talking about the incident in which Frank Martin "flick[ed]" Chris Merriewether after the graduate-level senior committed a horrendous and costly turnover late in the game against Missouri.
Panjandrum and I watched the game at a bar in the midst of a sea of Mizzou fans. As Pan put it, Mizzou is kind of a big deal in North Kansas City these days. Anyway, I saw the incident, and remember thinking that it wasn't really a big deal, but would probably be the kind of thing that would get some run on a cesspool like Tigerboard to show that Martin is an out-of-control psycho who might kill someone someday. It didn't even strike me as worth mentioning to Pan at the time, and he didn't mention it to me, so either he didn't see it, or he had similar thoughts. Imagine my surprise, then, when I foolishly watched the late local news later -- why you would ever do this in KC, I'll never know -- and heard the sports anchor refer to what sounded like some terrible incident that had overshadowed one of the more entertaining Big 12 basketball games in recent years.
What happened, I wondered? Did our team get into a fight in the locker room? Did one of the Antlers finally get a few teeth deservedly knocked out? Did Mike Anderson ask if Denis Clemente had his green card? Of course, the answer was no, the incident being referred to was Martin's contact with Merriewether on the sidelines.
Look, what Frank did cannot be condoned. We have a word for that in Missouri, and it's called battery. You don't go around hitting people, no matter the emotion of a big moment in a basketball game. Sure, Merriewether isn't going to sue Frank over it, and the Boone County prosecutor isn't going to press charges, but it's just not the way to handle things.
Despite all that, what could have been a bad situation was handled correctly. Before being asked about it, or even being informed that cameras had caught the incident, Martin apologized. It was the first thing he did when he went to the press room. When Merriewether was asked about it, he said it was no big deal to him. Chris knows Frank wasn't trying to hurt him. I won't claim to know what was said between the two or what's going on in Frank's head, but I'm going to guess that Frank feels bad about the situation, and Merriewether saw that he was sincere.
Now, this isn't one of those things that can become a regular occurrence with a similar reaction. Once is an accident, and an apology is acceptable. We give second chances. Twice, or more, is a pattern, and apologies don't wash anymore. Because he's my team's coach and I really respect everything that he's done in Manhattan, I'm going to give him a second chance and move on from this incident. If you disagree, that's your prerogative, but you're not going to convince me, so you might as well save it.
I'm done with this issue. It's time to focus on Texas A&M.
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I thought Coach Martin handled this perfectly...
beyond that it does bring up an interesting dilemma for college bball coaches in light of what has happened in the football world. Basketball coaches are much more visible and watching the K-State, Mizzou game and seeing plenty of Bill Self over the years you see some fired up coaches in basketball from time to time and what they yell and say is plain as day to fans near the action and pretty easy to decipher for the casual lip reader. It makes you wonder when a player or university might take advantage of that to gain some leverage against a coach.
Who knows, I’m probably over thinking it…my overall point was Frank Martin handled it well but it begs the question as to what happens when someone doesn’t.
Some people are like Slinkies...not really good for anything but they make you smile when pushed down the stairs.
I have strange feelings about this.
On the one hand, if what Martin did was wrong, it’s my sense that even yelling at a player is wrong. If we’re going to insist on wholly professional conduct from coaches, then we have to insist that players be treated in exactly the same fashion that I should expect to be treated by a manager in the workplace.
On the other hand, there are a lot of things which are deemed acceptable in the sporting world — hell, sometimes even almost mandatory to an extent — which would be absolutely inappropriate in an office. Can you imagine your boss patting you on the ass? Can you imagine your boss gripping you by the shoulders and giving you a squeeze while giving you a pep talk? Hell, can you imagine your boss calling you out in front of all your co-workers and telling you you’re failing and that you need to go sit and watch everyone else work? Or telling you to go run stairs as punishment for being late?
And let’s be honest with ourselves here: how many times do you think a coach does something almost exactly similar to what Frank did and the kid doesn’t even think anything of it, nor does anyone observing? Hell, when I was playing sports as a kid I got my helmet smacked a couple of times a day. Didn’t hurt, and more importantly the coach wasn’t trying to hurt me and even more to the point there was no way in hell he could have hurt me; he was getting my attention, so why should I complain?
I mean, it’s one thing to choke a kid or lock him in a closet or verbally humiliate him just to make him feel like crap. It’s another entirely to grab him by the shoulder pads or swat him on the arm or give him a quick rap on the side of his helmet. So in that respect, I’ve always felt that either we need to decide that we must treat sports no differently than accounting or software development and expect exactly the sort of professional interaction between player and coach that we would from manager and employee, or we need to realize that some level of physicality is actually an inherent part of sports and stop treating these guys (most of whom could probably whip their coach’s ass if they threw down in a parking lot, I might add) like they’re china dolls.
( Also, I’m very skeptical of the notion that the recent spate of accusations wasn’t in Frank’s mind when he apologized — not suggesting his apology was in any way insincere, just that the attention to the matter IS, in fact, making coaches more aware of what they’re doing, which isn’t a bad thing at all regardless of how serious you think the problem actually is.)
And having said all that, I wonder if Bill’s got a spot on his staff for Leavitt, who I am convinced is similarly guilty of having offended the sensibilities of a beautiful and unique snowflake.
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by jonfmorse on Jan 12, 2010 1:31 AM CST reply actions 1 recs
I have said elsewhere that because Frank apologized and didn’t try to shift blame to Chris for being soft, he probably will — and reasonably should — get a pretty clean pass on this one.
That said, now that he has acknowledged it was wrong to do, he can’ do it again. Another incident should result in some serious discipline, up to and including a multi-game suspension. If he turns this into a habit, then they would have to let him go.
I like Frank, and he has accomplished a lot, but this can’t continue.
I'd like to think we would at least start with a one-game suspension
Rather than graduating all the way up the punishment chain.
He whacked him in the side, people. It’s not like he clothes-lined him or choked him or threw a punch.
Besides, I finally watched the video. Merriewether, who already was guilty of screwing up royally, proceeded to get distracted by something outside the huddle and turned his head away from an already demonstrative Martin.
With steely-eyed focus like that, it’s no wonder we lost. If I was Frank, I would have done a lot more than thwack him. Of course, I’d probably now be unemployed, too, but that’s another story.
That is exactly right...
there were aboslutely no ill intentions to the action. It is beyond me as to why this is even news.
I don’t want to say it, but I’m going to…..would this have even been pointed out if it was Bill Self? I highly doubt. If anyone would have brought it up in postgame, he’d have awe-shucksed it and everyone would go on their merry way.
Up to a point.
Sports is not the same as the work place. I seriously doubt that any one outside of sports works in an enviornment that is as consistently emotionally charged as sports is. The coaches job is to motivate his players to teh point of being totally focused on the job at hand. I may be in the minority, but after hearing all the facts I didn’t feel that Mike Leach did anything wrong at Tech. He had a player with an obvious attitude problem who showed up at practice not willing to do what was asked, even though he was capable. He was put in a large dark room (not a tiny closet) and asked to stay in there. Sounds to me no different then timeout for a child who refuses to listen to his parent. There were no reports of Adam Jones being waterboarded while he was in there. That being said physical contact should not be used in anger like Frank did. He manned up and said he was wrong, that is good enough for me. He will have to learn to keep that in check in the future, or it will be an issue.
I really hoped the story would just dies down
I thought of it as a non-issue as well.
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Apparently, it's too slow in the Kansas City and Big 12 media markets to allow that
You’d think they’d have plenty to talk about just with all the great games going on, but no, apparently they need a “scandal” story at the forefront at all times.
Drama whores. And I should know — I work for one.
During the game...
…I saw what happened and almost posted a joking “OHMYGOD FRANK MARTIN JUST PUNCHED A PLAYER” joke on the RMN live thread…but it was such an innocuous thing that I didn’t even think making a comment about it was worth it, especially since nobody else felt the need to comment about it either. And I think that’s my whole viewpoint on it: a ton of us saw it happen live, and barely anybody even noticed. It’s probably good that Martin addressed it immediately, because I’m sure somebody was going to comment on it, but it just wasn’t even remotely a big deal. He was trying to get Merriewether’s attention during a timeout…that’s all it was to me. Obviously you wouldn’t do that to a co-worker in a cubicle (at least, not at most jobs), but…yeah. No big deal.
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It's not like he punched him in the face
I’m actually worried more about Frank’s screaming and scary faces. I mean, he looks scary just standing there with a “normal” expression. But when he gets angry and starts screaming, he looks like a freaking demon. Part of me loves it, part of me thinks, jeez, is this helping things?
so a rib shot is ok : )
I’m joking, as I said I don’t believe it’s a big deal, the “it’s not like he punched him in the face” comment just struck me funny. Almost sounds as if a punch to the gut would be perfectly acceptable.
Some people are like Slinkies...not really good for anything but they make you smile when pushed down the stairs.
This sounds dumb,
but this could be spun as a positive for us. One thing I’ve been thinking about is that maybe it’ll scare other programs from pursuing Frank for some time. We have to admit that if a high profile program from along the East coast wants to hire Frank, it’d be hard for him to turn it down. Maybe this ‘incident’ will keep them at bay for a while.
It's a positive
Because the fans will rally around the coach.
I wouldn’t want to be the Aggies tonight. Bramlage will be a death pit of destruction in about 5.5 hours.
Students are back
and will be ready for a break from moving in. Not to mention all we’ve been doing for a month is resting our voices for a full semester of making Bramlage hell for anyone who dares to come here.
Just Wabash already!
by AlwaysaWildcat on Jan 12, 2010 1:15 PM CST up reply actions
I do not and would never condone a coach hitting a player but,
what happened Saturday with Frank and Chris was not hitting (or any similar word implying violence/malice).
http://ncaabasketball.fanhouse.com/2010/01/11/ksus-martin-says-climate-has-changed-for-college-coaches/ (link from the “Fanhouse” section on the edge of this page)
I feel this to be a very accurate description of the ‘incident’, from the above link:
“During a timeout with 1:17 remaining and KSU trailing 65-63, the colorful Martin began screaming at Merriewether and then flicked the back of his hand at the player and ended up touching his arm.”
I feel Frank and all other KSU-related parties are handling this the proper way – apologize and move on. Not really a big deal.
He was definitely flicking his hands in the general direction of Merriewether because he was not giving the due attention to his coach during the time out (as Bill from Rock M mentioned). That attention was needed because of Merriewether’s costly turnover on the game’s previous play and the planning required for the last 1:17. I’d say the flick was not due to the play/turnover in the game, but the inattentiveness.
Personally, I like Frank’s fiery and emotional style and his “realness” with players and hope he continues to control/channel it rather than losing it (I fear his coaching-edge would go with it).
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